Can I speak with someone?
Yes sure, you can book a telephone consultation online by following the booking link. Please note we will not call you if you just email us on the contact form, you must follow the correct process and book via the booking link. We get a high volume of requests every day for telephone calls, so we have implemented this process to accommodate your needs.
Can I meet someone face to face?
Yes of course, registered clients can book an appointment to meet one of our Matchmakers in Birmingham.
Do you offer a 1-2-1 private matchmaking service?
Yes, we take on male clients for 1-2-1 matchmaking. If you are interested in a private service, join online via the normal process and then we can discuss further once you have completed the onboarding.
I love the sound of your service, your concept is great and totally different to anything out there
Thanks for the recognition. It was very important for us to offer something very different which allows people to maintain their dignity, respect and standards whilst looking for a marriage partner. We found dating apps and websites very derogatory, where people can be made to do things they don’t wish to do. Those platforms are also not suitable for professionals who are looking for similar calibre of people and feel they are just put into a bucket with everyone.
We are professionals ourselves so have based everything according to what we would want for ourselves. Our team are made up of senior leaders working for global banks and senior medical professionals.
Is this service only for professionals?
Yes, this service is strictly for professionals. Our members are working in careers in the private and public sectors and, are looking for someone at a similar level to them, so we do not accept anyone that doesn’t meet this criteria. We also accept graduates as part of our service, as we understand that they will soon be embarking on a career in their chosen field.
Is this service limited to a specific geographical area?
No, that’s the great thing about us, our service is open to everyone living in the UK, as well as UK expats living abroad.
We have branches in London, Birmingham and Manchester.
Are you like a dating website and dating apps?
No we are not a dating website or an app. There are no Likes, or Swipes! We have a portfolio of singles online which you can view, full profiles with photographs. When you find someone you like you can contact them directly by telephone to arrange a meet up.
When I join do I speak to people online?
No, you can select which people you are interested in and, then you can go straight to speaking on the phone to arrange your face to face meeting.
I am looking on behalf of my brother / son / family member, is that possible?
Yes, we encourage family to be part of the process as we understand it can be daunting and this is such an important life decision. The single person will need to complete their profile themselves, but the family can assist by going through profiles and arranging joint meetings with people you are interested in. This is actually advised as singles tend to be very busy in the week with work and appreciate the family sorting out their weekend plans.
Is this like a traditional community matchmaking service?
Yes we have all the same benefits like your very own local community matchmaker, with the added benefit that we have a national (and global) reach, so we can help you meet people you wouldn’t ordinarily have the opportunity to meet. All our members are added to our service by our matchmakers personally, which means everyone’s profiles have been checked individually. Also all our members have photographs which makes it so much easier to start the process.
What are your minimum membership terms?
We keep your profile on our books for 12 months, but you are not tied into any contract. This gives you the flexibility to let us know if you find someone so we can remove your details from our database. There is a very small fee to register your profile with us. There are no other mandatory fees after this. It is entirely up to you as and when you come across someone you like you can upgrade to matchmaking. This works great, as it is a flexible service around your needs.
How much is it to join?
Our current price is available online, click the ‘Join’ button from the homepage for full details.
How does the matchmaking work?
The best part of our service is that you are in control of who you wish to meet. If anyone takes your fancy you can initiate contact yourself directly. We do not pressure you to meet anyone you are not interested in.
I have started my registration, but lost the link/closed the link by mistake to complete my profile, what shall I do?
Not to worry, we can understand that can sometimes happen. If you email us your details we will redirect you to complete you profile. Our email is Consultant@TheMuslimMatchmaker.co.uk
Do you run events to meet singles?
Yes, as our service is for professionals we don’t run your ‘old fashioned marriage events’, which tend to be dull, derogatory, table rotation based events.
Our events are more in line with Corporate Offsite team building events, which are fun, interactive, positive, and encourage a lot more participation and conversation. It is a great weekend adventure in the outdoors, to escape from the city and everyday life.
Our events tend to be invite only to our members and we advertise them on our website. As they require a 6 weeks pre-booking and payment with the vendor, our members have to confirm their places in advance so we can put the event on.
It is best to join our membership so you can get invited to our events.
Do you cater for all ethnicities, ages and people previously married etc?
Yes we do. We don’t get involved in nitty, gritty details, “what if this”, “what if that”. Our service is open to all Muslims who are professionals. It is as simple as that! If you do contact us to ask us more specific questions, which are not appropriate, we will give you the same answer as we do not discriminate by cast or age or against people in a previous marriage. We want people to broaden their minds as life is not perfect, we all come in our own unique ways and have our own life stories. Preferences are personal, so we allow you that opportunity to explore and get to know someone through meeting up with them, you shouldn’t build up so many barriers before meeting people, because when you meet them they may turn out to be super awesome!
Is this service suitable for someone who is practising?
Yes definitely, our service is conducted in the most respectful manner, you will feel great to be part of this safe platform. This is a service where you can openly tell your friends and family about without feeling a shamed. There is no stigma attached as this is used by people who are serious in finding a companion to start their new married life with.
Do I need to have my photograph taken?
Yes, everyone has to visit us to have a photograph taken so we can verify you against your proof of identification. It is easy to come to visit us as we are based across the UK, we will send you the details when you join.
I could do with some help from a matchmaker before I speak or meet singles, is this possible?
Yes sure, we can arrange some private 1-2-1 coaching sessions to help you with any personal goals you wish to achieve. We have worked with people in the past to help them with their confidence, overcome their fears, how to talk with the opposite sex, how to arrange your meeting and follow up, as well as any other things you may need help with. We cannot stress how important it is to be prepared before you meet a great person, as you only have one opportunity to make a good impression. The more preparation you do the better chance of success you will have.
Personal development is so important in today’s day and age, it is also such an attractive quality. People who invest in themselves stand out of the crowd, they tend to have qualities where they elevate others, give out positive vibes as they feel good about themselves, thus are more attractive to people and are seen as a high-value partner. This is evident in the west, where we can see people participating in extra activities outside of work and with their families to develop their character and worldly knowledge. We can help to bring you up to speed so you are able to achieve a better quality and happy life.
I am originally from the UK but I now live abroad, can I join?
Yes, we have clients that are expats working in places like the Middle East. Our service is open to people living in the UK, as well as UK expats working abroad.